I am the person that started this thread and reading all the responses shows that either there is a comprehension problem for majority of people responding to me or most are just innately aggressive and would happily jump on any slight opportunity to vent their aggression and frustration on others.
For example, I posted this reply :
The fact that you are doing someone a favour does not give you the right to take away their dignity.
If you read the response to that reply, you'd be shocked how such a basic thing would elicit the level of aggressive response that I am getting.
How does what I posted above elicit the type of response that [Login to see the link] provided, such a lengthy and unnecessary show of hate.
Finally, I will like to give a shout out to [Login to see the link] for helping with my request, while [Login to see the link] took time to provide reasons why it can't be done, when you did it he went ahead to like it.
I wonder what kind of person will decline a request and attempt to stop others from helping, but when others provided the help, he went ahead to "like" that they provided the help.
Seeing how eager many people are to exhibit a sense of aggression and hate especially when they are given authority it is no surprise that there is so much pain and sadness in the world that we live in.
[Login to see the link] It is possible to correct people without denigrating them, thats what I am telling you to do . I am not asking you to bend the rules or anything.
If your English is awful like you stated above, then put an addendum in your response to show you don't intend to be aggressive and uncouth.
Something like : I hope I didn't come off a little harsh, I am sorry if I did I didn't mean to just trying to let you understand the rules. would help and make people understand you didn't intend to be uncouth.